{"id":9376,"date":"2023-01-16T08:00:25","date_gmt":"2023-01-16T08:00:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/adamchristing.com\/?p=9376"},"modified":"2023-02-20T14:39:12","modified_gmt":"2023-02-20T14:39:12","slug":"why-is-public-speaking-so-hard","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/adamchristing.com\/blog\/why-is-public-speaking-so-hard\/","title":{"rendered":"6 Reasons Why Public Speaking Is Actually Really Hard"},"content":{"rendered":"

Some things in life are harder than others. And this can vary from person to person. But one thing that many of us may struggle with is <\/span>public speaking<\/b>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Key Takeaways<\/b><\/h2>\n
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  1. P<\/b><\/span>ast experiences with public speaking that didn’t go well<\/span><\/li>\n
  2. U<\/b><\/span>nfounded or unrealistic fears about audience judgment<\/span><\/li>\n
  3. B<\/b><\/span>uilding a foundation on the wrong public speaking approach<\/span><\/li>\n
  4. L<\/b><\/span>ack of confidence or belief in your own public speaking abilities<\/span><\/li>\n
  5. I<\/b><\/span>n the case of a lack of preparation or rehearsal<\/span><\/li>\n
  6. C<\/b><\/span>an’t gain the insight to reveal an open mindset<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    It’s exceptionally common for people to feel uncomfortable or nervous when speaking in front of a group of people. <\/span>But why exactly is that?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

    See Related:\u00a08 Best Characteristics You Need As A Successful Public Speaker<\/a><\/p>\n

    Why Is <\/b>PUBLIC<\/b><\/span> Speaking So Hard For Some People?<\/b><\/h2>\n

    Glossophobia, or the fear of public speaking, is perhaps one of the most<\/span> prevalent fears<\/span><\/a> in the world. And for many people, <\/span>PUBLIC<\/b><\/span> speaking can be one of the most difficult tasks to embark upon.<\/span><\/p>\n

    We’ve all faced a crowd at one point in our lives. Maybe it was as we presented a group project in college or acted as an emcee<\/a> at an organizational meeting.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Or maybe you’ve had almost no public speaking experience at all.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

    Whether you’re a seasoned pro in giving speeches or utterly innocent to the idea of public presentations, communicating with a large audience can be a<\/span>\u00a0daunting prospect<\/span><\/a> for almost <\/span>all<\/span><\/i> of us.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Ordinary ice-breaker questions include <\/span>“what is your favorite color?”<\/span><\/i> or <\/span>“what is your biggest fear?”<\/span><\/i> And <\/span>PUBLIC<\/b><\/span> speaking<\/b> likely is one of the most commonly-named phobias.<\/span><\/p>\n

    It’s no surprise that stage fright is a common fear for many people. <\/span>But why is public speaking so hard for so many people?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

    #1. <\/b>P<\/b><\/span>ast Experiences That Became Sour Can Present New Challenges<\/b><\/h3>\n

    Letting go can be a tricky thing for many of us nowadays. Life is ever-changing and full of new experiences and opportunities. <\/span>But often, we are too focused on clinging to the past that we waste what’s right in front of us.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

    People are often afraid<\/span> to let go<\/span><\/a> of the past because they fear making the same mistakes again. <\/span>Yet, taking failed attempts and molding them into something positive<\/a><\/b> is critical for our overall growth and development.<\/span><\/p>\n

    When it comes to public speaking, <\/span>a negative experience in the past seems to always haunt us<\/span><\/i>. And the particular reason why can be unclear as each of us has individual wants, needs, and desires hidden in our brains.<\/span><\/p>\n

    For the most part, <\/span>this can be a HUGE reason why public speaking is so hard for many people.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

    \"Anxiety<\/span>Moving Past A Bad Public Speaking Experience<\/b><\/h4>\n

    Remembrance of terrible public speaking situations can make us believe all future instances will be the same. And the fear of repeating a mistake or reliving an unenjoyable moment can be <\/span>catastrophic<\/b>.<\/span><\/p>\n

    To become confident in your words and convictions when it comes to public speaking, <\/span>you need to overcome any past experiences you may have had that are haunting you.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

    If you don’t embark on<\/span> this journey<\/span><\/a> of reflection and acceptance, public speaking will always be a phobia of yours!<\/span><\/p>\n

    #2. <\/b>U<\/b><\/span>nfounded Fears About The Opinions Of Your Audience Members<\/b><\/h3>\n

    Often, the fear of public speaking isn’t being <\/span>afraid of speaking at all<\/span><\/i>. So if public speaking is difficult<\/a> for you, it likely isn’t because you are afraid to <\/span>talk<\/span><\/i>.<\/span><\/p>\n

    After all, <\/span>talking<\/span><\/i> is the primary way we communicate with those around us!<\/span><\/p>\n

    In this case, you are likely afraid of the <\/span>audience<\/b>. Now, <\/span>what exactly do I mean by that?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

    A Fear Of Public Speaking Is A Fear Of The People You’re Speaking <\/b>To<\/i><\/b><\/h5>\n

    In today’s world, we are surrounded by<\/span> judgment<\/span><\/a>. We live in a judgemental world. The internet is riddled with it as are our daily lives.<\/span><\/p>\n

    So when it comes to public speaking and talking in front of a group of people, it’s natural to be fearful of judgment. <\/b>After all, you’re putting yourself at the forefront of people’s attention!<\/span><\/p>\n

    Don’t focus on things you can’t control. For example, don’t obsess with the unknown opinions of your audience. <\/b>Though this is easier said than done, it’s the foundation of moving past the fear of judgment to accept your success!<\/span><\/p>\n

    And as a speaker, you need to be able to<\/span> accept the fact<\/span><\/a> that <\/span>not everyone will like you<\/span><\/i>. There will always be people that don’t appreciate your content or find it enjoyable.<\/span><\/p>\n

    But that’s okay!<\/span><\/i> It’s impossible to please everyone. Accept the possibility of <\/span>failure <\/b>and <\/span>judgment<\/b>, and you’ll feel the fear effortlessly melt away in no time.<\/span><\/p>\n

    \"Most<\/span>#3. <\/b>B<\/b><\/span>asing Your Presentation On The Wrong Foundation<\/b><\/h3>\n

    What makes public speaking so difficult for so many of us?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

    Sometimes, it’s what’s going on in our minds. And other times, it’s about what we’re expressing.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Public speaking is an <\/b>art <\/i><\/b>founded within the realm of <\/b>communication<\/i><\/b>. <\/b>But to truly grow and excel at this craft, you must know how to be an engaging and conversational speaker<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Public speakers often draw inspiration, passion, and motivation on stage from people in the audience. At least, I know I do! That\u2019s because public speaking is about more than <\/span>speaking<\/span><\/i>.<\/span> It’s about having a verbal and nonverbal conversation with the audience.<\/b><\/p>\n

    Having an engaged audience makes speaking to the public much more enjoyable and comfortable. Knowing your content is being absorbed is like fuel to light the fire.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Tips And Tricks For Keeping Your Audience Engaged<\/b><\/h4>\n

    An engaged audience is the best way to eliminate any stage fright.<\/b><\/p>\n

    But ensuring you successfully engage your audience can be hard sometimes. Luckily, I’ve had plenty of experience in public speaking, and I know <\/span>exactly<\/span><\/i> how to reach your audience on a deeper level.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Here are a few tips and tricks I’ve picked up over the years that are perfect for connecting and relating with your audience while keeping them engaged!<\/b><\/p>\n